Moving with Kids When a family is preparing to relocate, reactions to the upcoming change are important. Children reflect their parents' attitudes. Pre-planning begins with informing them of the upcoming move and includes organizing the details of relocating and getting acquainted with your new city (See Destination Cities Link). Prepare the children in advance of the move. Give them time to adjust to the idea. Answer all their questions. An honest question and answer session will give you an idea of their concerns. This will give you time to resolve their fears. Involve the children by taking them on house hunting trips. Take photos of the new home, school or neighborhood. They can show the photos to their friends and feel involved.